Should You Propose on Valentine's Day?

Some things can feel like a cliché. Snow on Christmas day, wearing a beret in Paris, and popping the question on the most romantic day of the year. Just because it’s a cliché or popular, doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing. Valentine’s Day is one of the most popular times of year for proposals, with most people getting engaged between November and February, from the festive season right through to February 14^th.

In this article, we’re weighing up the pros and cons of proposing on Valentine’s Day and sharing our advice for crafting a memorable proposal.

Pros and Cons of Proposing on Valentine’s Day

When it comes to romantic gestures, no day is more symbolic than Valentine’s Day. The entire week - and even month – leading up to Valentine’s Day is one of the most romantic times of year, with a feeling of love in the air, from bouquets of red roses to watching your favorite rom-coms on TV. It’s easy to find somewhere for your proposal, as hotels, restaurants, and venues will often promote special offers and curated events for the occasion. 

However, a Valentine’s Day proposal may be an introvert’s nightmare, especially if you’re planning to propose in a public place. You can expect restaurants and hotels to be at their busiest, making it harder to get a reservation. Valentine’s Day also brings with it expectations, especially in an age of social media, and proposing during this time could overshadow your personal story. Just like Christmas Day, you can guarantee that you won’t be the only couple getting engaged that day.

How to Make a Valentine’s Day Proposal Feel Personal

A Valentine’s Day proposal can take a little extra planning, including when you’re ordering your engagement ring. While most of our engagement rings are available with a 6-week delivery timeline, we recommend ordering as early as possible if you’re planning a February proposal.

You can make your Valentine’s Day proposal extra special by choosing a location that has significance for your relationship, whether it’s where you met or somewhere you’ve always wanted to visit. Look out for ways you can incorporate inside jokes, little rituals, and even memories into your proposal to make it feel more personal. The best proposals are those that focus on storytelling instead of creating a spectacle for social media.

FAQs About Proposing on Valentine’s Day

Should you propose on Valentine’s Day or another day?

Valentine’s Day is a popular time to propose, and its popularity isn’t a reason enough to avoid the date. Your partner might think it’s a romantic choice, or they may prefer another day that doesn’t get as much attention. Always do what’s right for you as a couple.

How do I make a Valentine’s Day proposal feel unique?

You can make your Valentine’s Day proposal feel unique by choosing a place that is significant to you as a couple, whether it’s the restaurant where you had your first date or a bucket list destination that you’ve always wanted to visit.

Can I order a custom engagement ring in time for Valentine’s Day?

You’ll need to order a custom engagement ring at least 6 weeks in advance for a Valentine’s Day proposal, but we recommend ordering as early as possible during peak proposal season.

What ring styles are best for a Valentine’s Day proposal?

You can lean into the romance of the season with a pink diamond engagement ring or fantasy-inspired engagement ring.

Make Your Valentine’s Day Proposal Special with a Custom Engagement Ring

Valentine’s Day is the most romantic time of year and one of the most popular for proposals. If you’re planning to pop the question on February 14^th, you can make the day extra special by being intentional, from choosing the perfect spot to get down on one knee to selecting a custom engagement ring that reflects your partner’s personality.

Every Valley Rose ring is made-to-order by our team of talented artisans, allowing you to select everything from your choice of gemstone to your preferred type of fairmined gold. Our rings are designed to be worn today and cherished forever as heirlooms that will stand the test of time. Get started by exploring our alternative engagement rings or by booking a virtual consultation to begin planning your Valentine’s Day proposal.