How to Travel with an Engagement Ring (Without Your Partner Finding Out)

Destination proposals are on the rise, and while popping the question aboard might seem romantic, it can also be stressful! Instead of taking the engagement ring out of your bedside cabinet, you have to bring it with you on a road trip, boat, or even a plane. No one wants their proposal ruined by their partner finding the engagement ring when they’re traveling.

In this guide, we’re sharing our top tips on how to travel with an engagement ring safely and without your partner finding out.

Step 1: Safely Pack Your Engagement Ring

The first rule of traveling with an engagement ring is to never pack it in a suitcase. If you’re flying, that means the engagement ring needs to stay in your carry-on at all times. You never know what might happen with your luggage, and if it goes missing, it could delay your proposal plans.  

Your Valley Rose engagement ring will come in a luxury box, ready for popping the question, but it’s a good idea to keep it safe in some tissue paper or even bubble wrap for added protection. Once you arrive at your hotel or accommodation, make sure to store the engagement ring in a safe spot.

Step 2: Consider Your Travel Method

Depending on how you’re traveling, there are different things you’ll have to consider. While we’ve already covered air travel (remember: carry-on only!), it can be harder to hide an engagement ring if you’re taking a road trip, and an international trip may require you to think about insurance in case anything happens to the ring. Before you travel, take detailed photos of your engagement ring, make copies of its certification, and check if any existing insurance policies will cover the ring.

If you’re taking a road trip, it’s always a good idea to keep the engagement ring somewhere that’s easily accessible but that your partner is not likely to open, whether it’s a backpack or an overnight bag.

Step 3: Keep Your Plans Under Wraps

It can be hard to keep a secret from your partner, even if it’s a surprise like a destination proposal. While it can be difficult, it’s usually best to avoid sharing your plans with too many people, especially family members who might let something slip. You’ll also want to be discreet with your virtual consultations and when you’re having the engagement ring delivered. Make sure to have an excuse ready if your partner signs for your package!

Step 4: Consider How to Safely Store The Ring

Once you arrive at your destination, you might be planning to propose right away. Most hotel rooms will offer an in-room safe, or you may be able to store it in the main hotel safe if you speak to the concierge team. When you’re getting ready to propose, you’ll want to store the ring somewhere safe until the right moment. 

It’s a good idea to keep the ring on you, whether it’s tucked in a blazer pocket or hidden in your bag. If you’re not bringing the box, make sure to keep the ring safely wrapped in tissue paper to prevent any damage.

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