How to Plan a Stress-Free Surprise Proposal

Getting ready to pop the question is exciting, but also likely to be one of the most stressful experiences of your life. You want to make the moment as magical as possible, especially if you’re planning a surprise proposal. It’s easy to get lost in a feeling of being overwhelmed by the moment, instead of enjoying it. The best proposal isn’t one that is ‘perfect’; it’s a proposal that feels authentically you. 

At Valley Rose, we’ve worked with hundreds of couples to create unique engagement rings, and we’re honored to play a small part in their next chapter. As we’ve learned a little along the way, we’re sharing our advice on how to plan a stress-free surprise proposal, from booking a virtual consultation to focusing on living in the moment.

Step 1: Choose a Ring That Reflects Their Story

Cosmia Oval Lab Diamond Engagement Ring

One of the most nerve-wracking parts of proposing is choosing the right ring. There are lots of things to consider, from how you want to represent your relationship to your partner’s personal style and your values.  

You want to look for a meaningful engagement ring, and our lab-grown diamonds and responsibly sourced sapphires are a cornerstone of our ethical design. We know every couple is different, and our unique engagement rings allow you to find the perfect ring to tell your story.

Step 2: Keep It Personal, Not Perfect

It’s easy to think that your proposal must be an elaborate affair. Our social media feeds are full of over-the-top proposals, and it’s easy to feel the pressure to perform for social media. Instead, the best proposal is one that feels truly personal to you. 

Think about what your partner enjoys, whether it’s exploring the great outdoors, traveling to a specific city, or even seeing their favorite musical. Sometimes keeping things quiet and intimate can make it even more romantic, like a starlit picnic or proposing on a walking trail. You can even choose a style aesthetic to match your proposal location, like a nature-inspired engagement ring.

Step 3: The Logistics That Make It Effortless

While you might be considering a spur-of-the-moment proposal, there are a few logistics to consider. Most engagement rings come with a lead time, even if you’re buying one from a high street jewelry store, as you may need it resized. It’s best to order your custom engagement ring at least 10-12 weeks before you plan on popping the question.  

You’ll want to consider how to store your ring until the big moment and how you want to capture your proposal. While you can capture photos and videos with a self-timer on your phone, engagement photographers are becoming one of the biggest bridal trends. It’s also worth having a backup plan, especially if you’re thinking of an outdoor proposal. Thinking about the logistics will help you feel less stressed and more present in the moment.

Plan a Meaningful Proposal with a Unique Engagement Ring from Valley Rose

You want to create the best proposal possible for your fiancée, and it’s easy to get caught up in the pressure of the moment. Take it one step at a time and start planning your proposal at least three months in advance if you’re considering a custom engagement ring. Take the first steps towards planning your surprise proposal by exploring our unique engagement rings or booking a virtual consultation to design a ring that tells your love story.